What Is a BDSM Collar?
These collar BDSM accessories are symbols of a dom/sub relationship. It is not unusual to see a submissive partner wearing a BDSM collar, even outside the bedroom. Active members even partake in collaring ceremonies between partners!
However, these collars are not restricted to the BDSM community. They're fun for everyone, especially if you enjoy pressure around the neck during intimacy.
Collars for BDSM are fastened around a wearer's neck, typically by their partner. For some, it's worn as an erotic accessory, heightening a person's sex appeal.
But they don't have to be just for aesthetics. Some include ring attachments to add on leashes and leads. These additions allow the wearer to be entirely submissive to their dominant partner as they're directed around the bedroom.
What Are the Benefits of BDSM Collars?
Match Your Bedroom Style
No matter what you plan to use it for, BDSM collars are available in a range of styles and materials to suit everyone's tastes.
Do you want a sleek, black leather collar with a ring to match your fave ball gag? You've got it. Or do you prefer a cutesy style feminine style with pink colors and sparkly lettering? There's a BDSM collar out there for you. Your style is entirely up to you and your partner to decide.
Fun for Everyone
BDSM collars aren't exclusive. Anyone can purchase this erotic accessory and have fun, regardless of gender, sexual orientation, or size.
Great Introduction of BDSM
If you're new to the community, our massive collection of BDSM products can be overwhelming. However, collars for BDSM are the perfect starting point for those first experimenting with this kink. Collars give you a way to explore dominant and submissive dynamics without incorporating the "rougher" aspects of BDSM play. If you enjoy it, you're welcome to move up from there. But for some, the power dynamic that a collar encourages is more than enough extra excitement.
Take Your Relationship to a New Level
If you're serious about trying BDSM, you need to try a collar; it plays an important role in establishing the relationship and brings the couple closer together.
In certain dom/sub relationships, this accessory is as binding as a promise ring. Dominant partners can gift a collar to their submissive. It acts as a symbol of loyalty and devotion. Subs can wear it outside the bedroom too, and they're trendy accessories in the club or at kink events.
What Types Are Available?
Necks are vulnerable, sensitive parts of the body. What works for some bodies may not work for others. This is why submissive neck attire is available in many materials, styles, and designs.
Different Materials
You'll find BDSM collars in different materials. The material changes both aesthetics and the sensations the neckwear provides. The most popular are the leather and chain options, but other materials exist too.
Leather
Leather chokers can be a subtle statement piece or cover the length of your neck. These accessories vary in thickness and often offer more customization options. But if you prefer full coverage, this is the material you'll want. In most cases, they tighten like a belt.
Metal Chain
Chain chokers can be thin or chunky. You'll typically find them available in cold or silver. You can wear some metal chains as everyday accessories, with only yourself and your dom aware of its erotic statement. They're easy to tighten and attach to a lead.
Other Materials
Rare materials include lace, velvet, and resin. Lace and velvet are considerably more delicate and are less favorable when using a lead. However, they often have intricate designs and are popular for fantasy role play.
Various Styles
Just because a BDSM collar is leather doesn't mean it's black with spikes (although it can be). You can get pastel collars with bows and bells. You can get jeweled velvet collars padded with red lace. Your collar can be blue leather in the back, but the front is silver chains.
When we say there's a collar for every person, we mean it.
How Do I Pick the Perfect Collar?
You wouldn't buy just any product for intimacy, right? Even when you're dildo shopping, you take time to make sure it's perfect for you.
This goes for BDSM collars, too. Even if two collars for BDSM serve the same purpose, you should go with the one that'll make you (or your sub) feel the best when wearing it.
The main things to consider include:
- Comfort & fit
- O-ring or D-ring attachments for leash/lead compatibility
- Style
Additionally, a collar in BDSM communities has specific meanings, depending on the appearance and features of the piece. There are:
- Consideration collars for when you're first exploring a new partner
- Training neckwear to teach your partner your dom/sub dynamic
- Permanent collars meant to be worn at all times and indicate a fully established relationship. Partners should discuss what a permanent piece means to them to ensure no boundaries are crossed.
There are also protection collars. In some cases, it means a sub entirely "belongs" to their partner. Approaching someone with a protection collar is considered poor etiquette. However, single individuals new to the community are also encouraged to wear them to help them thwart off unwanted encounters.
Of course, you're not obligated to adhere to any of these definitions yourself, so long as you're enjoying your sex life and respecting others.
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