What Is a BDSM Toy?
BDSM sex toys allow couples, throuples, or any group of people to engage in bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism practices. The main appeal of these practices is that they involve controlled risk. All participants work to mitigate these risks during sex, and fetish sex toys (BDSM style) can amplify the experience.
What Are the Benefits of BDSM Gear?
Using BDSM gear may sound intimidating to some individuals at first. However, we're here to acquaint you with the many benefits of BDSM sex toys:
Relieve Stress
Do you need a way to unwind after a long, stressful day? Bondage sex toys can help. Before you settle in for the night, let someone else take charge and take your mind off the day's worries. Or, if you've been spiraling out of control in all other aspects of your life, you can use a BDSM toy to retake authority in the bedroom. Pair your huge dildo with a blindfold and handcuffs, and you'll feel on top of the world.
Improve Communication
Individuals with a dominance or bondage fetish understand that BDSM comes with inherent risk. However, we can refer to it as RACK — a risk-aware consensual kink. The nature of bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism encourages excellent communication. All parties must establish consent and boundaries beforehand and communicate continuously throughout. You and your partner can develop verbal and non-verbal cues to alert one another when someone has reached their limits with the BDSM toys involved. Using BDSM gear helps foster a beautiful, intimate connection with your S.O. that more traditional forms of sex (the vanilla methods) don't often produce.
Overcome Fears
Most individuals go their whole adult lives with a very limited view of what sex could be. Bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism break these boundaries and let you explore what your body is fully capable of. Plus, you can discover new ways to excite yourself (and your partner) that you had never given a second thought to before. If you are uncertain about exploring bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism, you can do so safely using the right bondage gear in a secure environment.
Exercise Creativity
Are you feeling bored by your other sex toys? BDSM gear may be the solution you've been seeking. Bondage adult sex toys let you take on different roles (like cop/robber or doctor/patient) and play the submissive or dominant parts in the bedroom.
Magnify Enjoyment
After using BDSM sex toys the first couple of times, you may be surprised to find that you love temperature play or being tied up. BDSM products let you find enjoyment through unconventional measures. You can escape traditional gender roles and participate in acts you only thought were possible in your fantasies.
What Are the Types of BDSM Products?
Bondage, discipline, sadism, and masochism are very versatile. Explore the many BSDM products that make up these exciting takes on sex:
Blindfolds
A blindfold is the true piece of bondage gear for beginners. The “bottom” will usually wear this BDSM toy to enhance their other senses. With the temporary loss of vision comes a heightened sense of touch and hearing. The bottom will be very in-tune to what their dominant partner is doing and experience optimal pleasure from any sexual acts that occur. If you need some inspiration, consider using a blindfold during a new sexual experience. For example, if it's your first time using an Aneros product, you can really focus on the moment with your sense of sight inhibited.
Handcuffs
A set of handcuffs restricts the wearer's movement and allows the dom to set the pace in the bedroom. This bondage sex toy has versatile uses, as the dom can attach the cuffs to their sub's hands (or one cuff to a hand and the other cuff to a bedpost). Or, the sub can wear these BDSM toys around their ankles to keep their legs spread.
Sex Swings
A sex swing is an advanced piece of bondage gear. It isn't for newbies, but it can offer heightened pleasure when used properly. Some swings attach to a door or ceiling, and others are wearable. Whatever swing a dom chooses, they can use it to bend their sub into sex positions otherwise hard to maintain without the swing's assistance. From here, they can use a strapless dildo or another type of toy and go to town.
Nipple Clamps & Collars
It's no doubt that the nipples are some of the body's most sensitive areas. Nipple clamps are BDSM toys that let sex enthusiasts take advantage of their sensitivity. A dom will typically attach this fetish sex toy to a sub and leave it on for an extended period. The twisting and pulling sensation that the clamps provide is very gratifying. Upon removal of this BDSM toy, the former wearer will often experience a powerful release of pleasure. Some nipple clamps are attached to collars, which add another element of excitement. Many couples like using collars to engage in dog/owner play or a generalized dom/sub roleplay. These BDSM toys demonstrate ownership and play into the sadism element, as these bondage adult sex toys can restrict breathing and movement.
Paddles, Whips, & Floggers
Paddles, whips, and floggers are BDSM toys that help sex enthusiasts explore the discipline and sadism aspects of this kinky fetish. The top can administer hits with a fetish sex toy if the bottom is not following instructions or is otherwise misbehaving in the bedroom. These impact BDSM toys can produce stinging, localized hits or more generalized thuds, depending on the hitting object the dom uses. Of course, all the terms are discussed beforehand to ensure no one is uncomfortable.
Ball Gags
Ball gags are popular bondage toys for doms and subs. A ball gag will leave the sub's mouth open for an extended period and give the dom a powerful sense of control. The submissive individual's ability to speak will be severely restricted, so the group must establish a non-verbal safety cue beforehand. Many bondage sex toys feature holes, allowing the sub to breathe through their nose and mouth. This safety feature makes sexual play safer and more enjoyable for all parties.
Find the Perfect BDSM Toy Today!
No matter which element of this kinky field you like to indulge in, you can shop our wide collection of BDSM sex toys today to find the perfect product for you and your partner. Also, be sure to check out the entire JLD inventory to find other fetish sex toys that will fulfill your fantasies.
