What Is a Clit Stimulator?
The clitoris is the center of female sexual pleasure. A clit vibrator or stimulator uses vibrations to engage pleasure receptors in this area — due to the speed of the vibrations, this can be significantly more intense than using fingers to stimulate the clitoris.
The enhanced sensation makes clit stimulators a very accessible way for women to take control of their sexual satisfaction — men today tend to be aware that the clitoris exists, but this doesn't mean they know where it is or what to do with it. Even women have to take time to learn about each other's bodies.
However, a clit massager can also form an exciting part of intimate, sexual relationships, intensifying orgasms and helping you and your partner understand your bodies.
What Are the Benefits of Clit Stimulators?
A great orgasm is a goal in itself, and a clit vibrator is one of the best ways to get there. However, there are numerous other benefits to these toys.
Easy to Use
It took male scientists an absurdly long time to understand anything about the clitoris, but there's nothing too scientific about using these toys. Choosing your vibration level or pulse stimulation is straightforward, and the power-off switch is always there if you get uncomfortable.
Learning What Feels Good
If you're trying your first toy and don't know where it should go, put your clit vibrator on a low setting and feel around! Bodies aren't always the same — you might like it a bit higher; you might like it a bit lower. Let your body tell you what feels good, and you'll soon find your sweet spot.
Knowing what feels good to you is vital, and you can start with affordable dildos and vibrators if you're unsure. It doesn't just provide incredible orgasms when you're masturbating — it can dramatically improve your sex life. You can guide your partners towards your sweet spots and even use your clit stimulator during sex.
New Sensations
Clit vibrators can go as slow or as fast as you like. Slower settings are often more similar to being touched, but there's no finger or tongue out there that feels quite like a vibrator. The intensity and consistency help you feel comfortable and stay in control. You can enjoy a gentle rush or a super-intense experience, depending on your choice of settings.
Going at Your Own Speed
Almost every clit stimulator has variable speeds. Not everyone is looking for the strongest buzz they can get, and likewise, sometimes it's nice to start slow and build up. You have complete control over the vibration frequency and can change it up or down to build the best orgasms of your life.
Building Confidence
Many people don't know much about their bodies, which can mean that our sexual partners don't understand our bodies. Having confidence in expressing yourself sexually and showing your partner what you like makes sex so much better.
Take the time to learn what you like. Have a great time doing it. Clit stimulators are an educational experience. Whether you're sharing that with your partners or having fun enjoying it by yourself, education builds confidence and is a beautiful thing.
Dispelling Myths About Female Pleasure
The penis is all well and good, and a fun suction cup dildo can be a real gamechanger, but it gets enough time in the spotlight. Now it's time for the clitoris.
When you use a clit stimulator, you discover the real center of female pleasure. The clitoris is incredibly sensitive, and there are so many subtle ways you can tease it and build your orgasm. There's a lot you can do with a clit vibrator that a penis couldn't do with a lifetime of practice — you and your male partners both deserve to know this.
Using a Clit Stimulator with Partners
There's nothing weird about using a clit stimulator with partners. It doesn't mean they're inadequate or “need assistance.” Sometimes it's just the best and easiest way to reach orgasm, which is what should be happening.
If your partner is concerned, remember that there's “skill” and reward in teasing someone to an incredible orgasm with clit stimulators. Teach them how good they can make you feel — you'll both love the results.
Types of Clit Stimulators
Magic Wands
These are among the most popular clit stimulators — they're handheld, easy to operate, and use a rounded head to provide fantastic stimulation.
Pulse Clit Stimulators
Air pulse clit stimulators don't even have to touch your body to make you feel amazing. They use rapid air pulses to activate pleasure receptors and are fantastic toys for tantalizing foreplay and incredible orgasms.
Bullet Clit Vibrator
These are small vibrators that can be held and teased around the clitoris. Direct and to the point, bullet vibrators focus their energy in a very localized space, building a mighty orgasm.
Combination Clit Vibrator
It's not all about the penis, but there's nothing wrong with mixing it up with a lifelike or thrusting dildo. Some models combine a dildo with a clit stimulator to create an amazingly intense experience.
Wearable Clit Stimulators
These can be used for kink play (some models have remote controls operated with smartphone apps or remote devices) but can also be a great choice if you find stimulation overwhelming and need to relax to reach orgasm.
Shop from Our Collection of Clit Stimulators Today
Pick your speed. Get comfortable with your method. Try new things. Never stop learning about yourself — there's always more to discover. Select your favorite model and make your purchase today.
